There’s something we need to get straight in the ongoing abortion war. What terms should we use for referring to people who are in favor of, or against, a legal system in which abortion is permitted? Back in the day, pro-choice and pro-life were the agreed-upon terms, but as political tensions got ever warmer, people on both sides of the lines became intent on modifying the terms as a form of attack. This was not an unreasonable move, in fact. The terms “pro-choice” and “pro-life” identified what each party took to be the good that it was defending. At some point, each camp must have said to themselves, “Why are we granting the other side such a positive-sounding title? We need some way to express their depravity in a nutshell, so we can emphasize it every time we refer to them.” Hence the terms “anti-choice” and “pro-abortion” were born. In some ways, I actually find these terms quite useful. They identify, not just the ideological commitments of the referent, but also those of the speaker, and thus convey more information in the same amount of time. Still, we might need to think a little harder about them, because I’m not sure these terms are exactly fitting.
Actually, I’m not too terribly unhappy about being labeled “anti-choice,” because it’s quite true that “choice” as such is not something that I champion as one of life’s greatest goods. When the “choice” in question concerns whether or not to kill one’s own child, I guess I am pretty “anti”. Nor am I in favor of giving people choices as to whether or not to murder their parents, rape their sisters, or burn down their neighbors’ houses. I don’t even favor giving people choices about whether or not to pay their taxes or pass tests before they can drive. I’m anti-choice in lots of ways when it comes down to it.
Nonetheless, if technically asked my opinion, I would have to say that “anti-choice” is not entirely appropriate for expressing the position of the anti-abortion camp. My thinking goes something like this: the so-called “pro-choice” camp would have you believe that they are working to expand the options available to a pregnant woman. She has more choices now: she can raise her baby, give it up for adoption, or kill it in utero. She had two choices before Roe vs. Wade, and now she has three. See, more choices! On a legal level, I guess this is more or less indisputable. On a practical level, however, I suspect that women who are pregnant and desperate have the same number of choices now that they’ve always had… except now their available options are worse.
A century ago, a pregnant woman had little choice but to bear her child; there was the outside option of trying to procure a so-called “back alley” abortion, but this was dangerous and carried severe risks to her. Now, pregnant women in bad situations — that is, ones who are very young, or very poor, and probably unmarried — are often offered little choice but to abort their babies. In the old days, when pregnancy was automatically associated with, well, babies, other people who had some responsibility for the pregnancy (i.e. fathers) or at least some responsibility for the girl (parents, communities, university administrators) were more or less forced to step up and lend a hand. Fathers were often forced to marry their pregnant girlfriends, and parents, however angry they might be, were usually persuaded to help in one way or another. Now that abortion is on the table, these persons often feel considerably less pressure to be supportive. By making the pregnancy “her choice,” liberals have likewise made the outcome “her fault” exclusively, at least in the eyes of fathers (or parents) who thought their obligations should have been discharged with the offer to drive her to the clinic and pay their half. It’s pretty widely known by now that a large number of women who get abortions say explicitly that they didn’t want to do it, but that they felt they had no choice given the lack of available support. So, the bottom line is, the women we’re all most concerned about (that is, the poor and unmarried ones) still don’t feel like they have a choice. I may not be a big fan of choice, but when it comes down to it I may not be much more anti-choice than your average liberal.
So anyway, I’d rather protest abortion than the label “anti-choice,” but I’m still not sure it’s quite fair. In the interests of fairness, though, we should perhaps look through the eyes of our opponents, who might be similarly annoyed by the title “pro-abortion.” Their grounds for protest aren’t so difficult to see. They are not (they would tell us) in favor of abortion. They think it’s very sad, very unfortunate, not something they personally could ever do, and on and on until they get to the part where we eliminate the need for abortion through progressive social programs. (Cue rolling eyes.) Now, don’t get me wrong. This stuff infuriates me as much as anybody. Still, I wouldn’t go so far as to say that most of them (with a few exceptions, such as some Planned Parenthood workers) actually like the idea of abortion per se. You’d have to be something of a sadist to feel that way about it, and most of them aren’t sadists. They’re just cowards, who would rather bite the abortion bullet and try not to think about what that really means, than risk giving up some of their fundamentally selfish liberal ideals. They’re not so much pro-abortion as people who are letting themselves avoid thinking too much about what abortion really is.
Again, I don’t want to make a big fuss about this. I use the term pro-abortion myself sometimes, and as I mentioned above, I think it’s useful for how much information it conveys about the attitudes of both speaker and referent. But I just wanted to suggest: wouldn’t it really be better to label these folks with the term anti-life?
I know, of course, what most of them would say. They’re not anti-life. They love life. In fact, they’re trying to make life even better through their progressive social programs. They’d say that, and they’d even believe it, but they would be wrong. The truth is that the ideology that motivates this group of people does not value life for its own sake. It values autonomy, self-actualization, perhaps the exercise of the rational faculty, but not life per se. In the philosophies of advocates of legalized abortion, one cannot find much regard for the living creature as such. Life is of course a prerequisite to some other things that are valued (e.g. personal autonomy) but except insofar as it enables some of these other goods to be realized, there is no reason why a live thing is better than a dead one. One even sometimes hears the question, “What good is it for the child to be alive if it doesn’t get a secure home, good health care, a decent education?” and so forth. There is an implicit assumption behind this question, namely, that life in itself has no moral value.
Furthermore, we see the same anti-life tendencies manifested with regards to other questions. The championing of euthanasia is one such issue — why shouldn’t a person choose to be dead if that’s what he prefers? — and in incidents like the Terri Schiavo case where living persons (who, incidentally, are inconvenient to keep alive) have lost the components that would make their lives “valuable” in liberal eyes. This was the thrust of Pope John Paul II’s arguments about the “culture of death,” and it seems to me that his insights on that topic were basically right.
I conclude, finally, that it would be perfectly right and fitting for us to begin referring to the supporters of legal abortion as “anti-life.” Any takers?
St. Louis-Marie de Montfort,
Pope St. Pius X,
St. Joseph,
St. Ambrose of Milan,
St. Thomas Aquinas,
St. Francis (and St. Clare),
St. Catherine of Siena,
St. Alphonsus Ligouri,
St. John Chrysostom,
What about pro- and anti-infanticide?
I like pro-death and pro-murder myself when it comes to describing abortion or euthanasia. Advocates for either are in the pro-death camp. Having had some experience on the front lines in front of abortion mills, I found that the popular red signs “Stop Abortion Now” have little effect. That slogan sounds like a campaign on the political level and just doesn’t express the horror of the crime. Tell a woman, “Please don’t kill your baby,” and you at least get a reaction. It makes an impression. The same goes when holding a sign, “Abortion is Murder.”
Once a young boy around ten or eleven who had been quite sheltered said to me, “They say abortion is when a mother kills her baby. That’s ridiculous; no one would ever kill their baby. That’s just crazy.” Well, I had to break the news to him that it is crazy and it is true. I could have said, “Abortion is a little different. You don’t see the baby or hear it scream or see the blood. The baby isn’t quite formed. It’s not as bad a just plain murder.” But by taking the shock of it away and trying to make it a little less offensive to his sensitivities I would have sacrificed the truth. I would have turned a naturally staunch opponent into an apathetic bystander.
I am not for shock value for itself. Pictures of aborted babies are not my style. Maybe it helps some people but a picture of a beautiful baby in the womb sucking its thumb seems to hold peoples interest better so that they will listen to the message, “Abortion stops a beating heart.”
The issue is not whether we are pro-choice or anti-choice, or even whether we are pro-life or anti-life; everybody is in favor of life, at least in the vague seamless-garment sense with which Ab. Bernardin originally tried to fuzz the issue. Both the “choice” and the “life” terminology tend to obscure whether there really is a clear-cut dichotomy.
The issue is — purely and simply — where we stand on the evil of abortion. Hence:
pro-abortion or anti-abortion
But then, technically speaking, pretty much nobody is in favor of abortion either. They’re just in favor of it being legal, because they think there are desperate circumstances where it’s justified, or because they “don’t feel it’s their place to make the decision for someone else”, or some such nonsense. But pretty much nobody will call themselves pro-abortion.
So it seems we value different things in a name. You, Henry Edwards, like a name to be to the point, so that the name itself makes clear what the issue is about. Discipulus wants it to have a bit of zing, so it can serve as a kind of wake-up call. I’m concerned about those people (and there are many) who have the idea that pro-lifers are a bunch of Simple Simons, a kind of pregnancy pacifists who can’t see beyond their “killing babies bad” observation to appreciate the many subtleties of real-life situations. Well, I think we do appreciate the subtleties, a lot better than the other side ever has. When liberals tell me that they’re not really “pro-abortion,” I don’t have much to say except “well, come on, close enough.” (And I have in fact had people broach this subject with me, quite earnestly in fact.) But I would take pleasure in explaining to such people why they really are anti-life, whether they realize it or not.
And I also think it’s about time we took the term “life” back from the likes of Ab. Bernadin and put it in the proper context.
Discipule, I like the “Abortion Stops a Beating Heart” sign. Simple, not unnecessarily crude, but to the point. I also like the positive ones — I held a “Choose Life” sign the other day outside our local abortuary for quite awhile. Different things are likely to reach different people, I guess. When you’re standing by the highway, appealing to an audience of complete unknowns, you just have to go with something and hope it helps.
I saw a pro-life slogan recently that I thought was very effective: “Some choices are just wrong.”